As you see our experiences can somewhat be the same. The fact that "if you want to find some quality friends you have to wade through the dicks first." I think that accurately describes the internet itself. To find the quality hidden in it you have to go through the porn.
If you want to find some quality in gaming you also have to go through the dicks first. Hopefully we move beyond where in the chat roulette of gaming the only thing we see are the Halo's and Resident Evil 5 and move into the quality titles.